About Me

Anja Kositzki - Hawaiian Nurture

My name is Anja and I am woman, partner, mother to two wonderful men, midwife, dancer, Certified Wayfinder Life Coach, Women's Sexual Health practitioner and Lomi artist.


Born in Germany, I have lived in America and England for more than 30 years.  I dedicated 12 years to a vibrant Independent midwifery practice in the Sussex area and  have been working as a Lomi Lomi massage practitioner since 2011.  The years of being so intensely involved in women's lives brought me into Women's Circles and trainings around Women's Initiations, Partnership, Communication and Sexuality. I have seen in my clients and in myself the importance of recognizing and acting upon the changing needs in our partnerships. In order to do this effectively, we need to understand ourselves and our bodies first. This desire has brought me to Women's healing work - it is profound, astounding, beautiful, transformative and healing to ourselves, our partnerships and our families.


Lomi Lomi is a dance of life and a ritual for me, in which YOU are the center of the universe. Intuitively, I feel in and support what wants to be moved, released and changed. Massage is like a meditation - not in stillness, but a moving meditation. It is a daily gift for me to be working in this way.


Since 2019 I am offering Coaching work in Sexuality, Intimacy and Communication. It is an honour to be invited to support couples in developing their relationship! I am deeply touched by the trust extended to me, by the beauty of seeing newly awakened understanding, recognition and LOVE.


Life Coaching completes my offering beautifully. Making space for you and accompanying your explorations.


I am very grateful to my teachers, Carrie Rowell and Klemens Reinisch for the foundation of my Lomi Lomi work. Am  full of gratitude to my teacher Nhanga Grunow for the Women's Healing work and various teachers of Tantra both in the UK and on the Continent.

I am delighted to have found Martha Beck and her Wayfinder Coaching work to bring another layer of support to my work.

Nature is very powerful in Hawaii and this is noticeable in every massage.

The SUN is present in the warmth of room, hand, oil and heart. It brings hidden things to light.

The WIND is present in breath and movement. It is fresh, fills our lungs, moves us and connects us to our feelings.

The flowing of the WATER moves, cleanses, refreshes and connects us with the energy of life.

The EARTH energy is felt in the firm stability, the holding , the groundedness.

The FIRE transforms. It burns the old and creates space and energy for new things.

The massage combines all these elements and invites you to embrace the new and to come fully into the present moment.